06 · Politeness
“I'm afraid…”
Softening a refusal or bad news
Mary's model recording
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Meaning
Not about fear. It means “I'm sorry to tell you…”.
What it can imply
Something you don't want to hear is coming: a no, a problem, or a delay.
Context and register
Very common in service, work and formal situations. It sounds polite and calm. It is also used in friendly conversation.
In conversation
At reception
Ana:Is there a room available tonight?
Receptionist:I'm afraid we're fully booked.
Turning down an invitation
Colleague:Can you come to the meeting at four?
Ana:I'm afraid I can't — I've got a call then. Could we do five?
Would I use this?
Yes, definitely. It works in almost any polite situation. Offering an alternative afterwards makes it even friendlier.
Your practice
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